Do you realize that each time you attend your reunion, the chance and frequency of the same occassion to be repeated decreases as each one finishes? I am not to sound pessismistic during such a merry season but I just want to reiterate how much these reunions, no matter how fattening, diet-ruining, and boring, still are the most precious and priceless presents you are to receive this Yuletide season.

Almost all my relatives came home from abroad after years of working over seas. It's such a great and blissful sight to see everyone (at least those that your familiar of) in your blood line together in one festive and joyous occassion. Bags of chocolates and gifts are like a bountiful harvest during this time.

So the next time you think of ditching your annual family reunion, think of the few years (which may be counted by the fingers in your hands) the elderly in your family may have left. Think of the miles they travelled and the hard-earned money they spend just to be with you during the holidays. Think of the picture takings, no matter how embarassing some may be because of inapproriate venues and timings (at least for you), as a sign of gratitude for them paying you a visit this Christmas. Because as much as we'd like to deny this cheesy and mushy truth, family will always come first.

A Blessed Christmas and a Blissful New Year to all. :)